March 26, 2007

Spring has sprung here in Cincinnati!


What wonderful weather we have been having and Emma is enjoying her nice outdoor time. This morning it was so funny to put her in a sweet little green sundress and barefeet! She was just adoreable!!!! My older girls are eager to open our pool, but I am sure that this weather is just a tease!

Life with Emma is certainly different. We just love her so much! Her days are filled with the busyness of a two year old which warms my heart. :) She has two furry friends that follow her and sometimes run from her during the day. Sam and Hallie our ShiTzus. Sam thinks he is her appointed guardian. In fact last week she managed to sneak out the back door into the garage while I turned my back. Sam started whining and I just sushed him. When I looked for Emma she was gone and Sam was still whining at the backdoor! I opened it and there she was decending the steps! PTL I caught her before she fell onto the concret. Thanks Sam!!

We are trying to bring our Ct. children out to Ohio for Easter. This is a large task since it involves six people. I think five of them will drive out in a rented van and our son, Nate, will fly out. We are excited to have them meet their new little sister, Emma.

I am still waiting to post photos. DH has not been available to help me. In time! Sorry to all who are looking for them. :)

March 16, 2007

We are home now!
















We have arrived home and are glad to get life back on track to some degree. Emma was a great traveler! She slept most of the flight from China to L.A. and then again at the hotel that night. It was so nice to be in a hotel with nice soft beds! I wanted to sleep forever!!! Thank you Hampton Inn. :) Our flight from L.A. to Cincinnati was long. Emma did not want to sleep and although she was quite good, I ran out of steam keeping up with her. The jet-lag is really tough! When we arrived at our final destination we were greeted by Aimee, Bekki and Nadya holding a Welcome Home Emma sign that Nadya made. :) We also had friends there that video taped our homecoming. Thank you Bennetts! We were very thankful for that since we did not have a video camera for the trip. In fact our good old digital camera died on us while we were in China and we had to buy another one. You would think they would cost less, but they don't.

We have been home for six days now. The jet-lag is less, but still hits us in the early evening. Emma is slowly adjusting to life at home with the girls and dogs. She was a bit timid with the dogs at first and now they run from her! Sam tries to stay out of her way and Hallie is just a nice little girl dog that Emma bops over the head if she is in her way. :) I think Emma is letting them know who is in charge! She is still very clingy to me. There are times when she feels confortable playing near me, but always needs me in her view. She enjoys going outside to play and that is my only break. She will go with the girls then. As far as food goes, Emma will eat anything so far. She fed herself for the first time last night and was so proud of herself. It was cute to see her working so hard with her little fork and getting it to her mouth. :) When Emma joined us on Feb. 25th she was drinking formula from a bottle several times a day and eating a rice congee and steamed eggs. That is about it. We have gotten her to eat almost everything! Fruit is still her least favorite, but she is coming along.

I would like to thank all of you who helped care for my girls while we were in China. They had more food than they could eat! :) Rausch's, thank you for taking Nadya into your home and seeing to her needs. She enjoyed you very much. I can't thank you enough! Cindi, thank you for driving Bekki everywhere! There are many more of you that have watched over the girls and we are very thankful. :)

Photos coming.

March 5, 2007

A View of Life in China

photo #1: bathroom in Chongqing photo#2 moms enjoying their new girls.

photo #3: Larry & Wendy in hotel Photo#4: Our Red Couch photo with Em
lobby with Emma

photo #5 dinner at local resturant photo#6: children at gym class

photo#7: out shopping with friends photo#8: Emma admiring statue

photo #9: shopping at shop under stairs photo#10&11: Emma in hotel room

photo#12: Emma in mirror avoiding us photo#13: finally sleeping!












































































The plane ride to Guangzhou was a first for this wee one. We did not know what to expect as she just had double ear infections. But the Amoxicillin worked (PTL).








We have been in Guangzhou now for a few days - climate is more humid than Chongqing and clearly a large city - always busy. Emma continues to cling to Wendy which is good. As far as she is concerned, I beleive Emma would prefer that I disappear. The China Hotel is ok but nothing great - we have had to have them fix a few things. As always, the Chinese people are very nice. They live the community life which Americans seem to busy to enjoy.

The medical clinic tests were interesting. The doctor seemed concerned about what he heard in Emma's heart so he consulted with another doctor. They wanted her original charts which we did not have. As it turns out, they think she is ok - the heart "noise" is not of concern to them. We have an appointment at Children's Hospital on April 4. Our prayer is that this little one will not need heart surgery -wouldn't be awesome?
So many children were being adopted by Americans that it was very impressive.

Greg and Maren Rausch have been just an awesome family that have assisted us with caring for Nadya while we are gone. In addition, they introduced us to Jordan. We brought things from them for Jordan and he was most thankful. After spending time in his store we decided that we needed a suitcase to carry our treasures home. At 140 yuan, this case was a bargain at $18

shopping at Jordan's Shop with friends, Jordan is in the middle.
notice the LARGE suitcases the men have, they are full of goodies
purchased at Jordan's. I bet he was happy!
Some of the people we have travelled with have taken ill - various issues. So far, all is well with the three of us though. Emma goes to bed at 8 PM and the room must be dark for her to settle down. She does not like the crib so Wendy gets her on the bed and tries to calm her down. In time, she falls asleep and we move her to the crib. We are most fortunate that she sleeps all night. This morning for example, she woke up at 8 AM and stood up in the crib just looking at us. She may still be wondering what happened! God is good

March 2, 2007

Small yet determined


I just love this place...fountains to get wet in...all the food I want and served right to me....




















Emma-Lia Grace has a distinct personality. At 28" tall for a 2 year old, she has spunk wired into a strong will. She is no pushover. When I (Larry) come near her, she wimpers, she whines, her face becomes a frown. If I dare to pick her up, the wail peels the wallpaper off of the wall. Very effective technique (better than steaming it off).





















She is standing next to my sneakers in this photo. She loves to play and run all the time. Very expressive - somewhat like her older sister Bekki. Bekki talked to her dolls and so does Emma!













We suspect that there were no men in her orphanage and so, men (like me) are strange. I have heard that before on occasion.




















All of our notarized papers were delivered today - the adoption is final although I think that Emma wants to have a judge hear her case (as it relates to me as the father). She is fine with Wendy taking on the Mom role.




















March 1, 2007

Walking the Streets of Chongqing
















































We had a fascinating journey today exploring the streets of the city. They are not wide but they are filled with people, small store fronts, dogs and opinions. The local people did not beleive we had Emma dressed warm enough and they politely (?) told us in Chinese. The variety of fruit and flowers was amazing. Rose buds were individually wrapped in netting to protect them before sale. Men carried bamboo poles and baskets - the baskets contained everything from boxes, bricks, food and gravel!









Small dogs were common - as pets - in they were in the food I did not know that. The variety of tiny store fronts was amazing. Everything was for sale, shoes could be fixed, clothes mended, motors repaired, etc. All on the sidewalk in front of the store which was often only 4 feet wide.

















The Chinese people are very sociable and enjoy community life - each night they gather, walk, talk, eat and play games. The lights of the common area (like Times Square) were brilliant. The numbers of people contantly moving was fascinating. There was no pushing, yelling, fighting or rough stuff.
















Countless thousands are on the street - many times using cell phones since land lines are too hard to install because of the terrain.














Electronic items are cheaper in the US. Buy there before you come (i.e. memory cards, cameras, etc). The DVDs are cheaper though but watch for the language on the DVD.














Truly these are a very special people, very hard working, skilled and community oriented